最高のアドバイスを有難う♥
2021年08月12日 - 20:18:59
My father told me this when he walked up on me hiding behind his house while I was bawling over my fiancée, who I just found out was cheating on me.
“I know right now you’re feeling desperate, angry, hurt and alone. And the first thing you want to do is get revenge, sleep with other people and hurt someone too. That’s normal. But you shouldn’t do that. Don’t be like her. Don’t go down that path. You should always fall back on your best character. Be the bigger person now, and you’ve already won. Feel the pain for now. In a month you’ll see what I mean. And so will she. So take your time. Be a good man. You’ll find someone who actually cares about you. Maybe you’ll be alone, and that’s okay too. But you still have your life and your character and you can’t throw that away because of someone else who doesn’t have any.”
I’ve thought about that every single day for a year now, and it has propelled me to such strength, confidence, love and happiness.
